It would be good to have a goal but a vision of an end result is so much better. The end result is not just a destination, but it is the person you want to become once you have reached a goal. It is a step by step process and here is how to achieve it.
A Step By Step Approach To Boost Self Esteem
The first thing to do when one wants to boost self- confidence is to determine one’s goals and aspirations in life. This has to be specific enough and must be categorized into degree of achievement. Once the life goals and objective is determined, an individualmust then do a self-assessment. Find out for himself his true personality or who he really is. No one succeeds in boosting his self-confidence if he doesn’t know himself. Determine one’s strengths and weaknesses and identify ways and means of overcoming weaknesses and further strengthening one’s strengths.To help an individual in achieving his goal of boosting his self-confidence, one must seek out the help of friends and relatives, who can motivate, inspire, encourage and perhaps even reward him for his self-confidence boosting objectives. This is a very crucial ingredient of any plans on boosting one’s self confidence. No one can successfully measure one’s success in any things that he does but the people that are closer to him. Friends and relatives would be the most objective parameter for measuring one’s success or failure in any feat. And that is very applicable when one is boosting his self-confidence. After seeking out the help of friends and relatives, an individual might find himself failing in his objectives and goals and might even think of giving up. But then, in moments of failure, the best thing to do is not to give up but to rest for awhile, backtrack a little and re-assess everything. Find faults and errors in what he has done, and then consider doing corrective actions to redirect his path towards his goals. In some instances of failure, it might be necessary for an individual to refocus himself or reducing his goals. For all he knows, he might have over assessed himself and included goals which are beyond his ability. An individual must focus first on mastering one aspects of his self-worth before doing other things. Nobody is a master of everything.
The key to achieving self-confidence lies on an individual’s capability to undermine his strengths and makes it inherent to him. Or when everything else fails, the best way to project self- confidence and later on achieving it, is to project that one is self-confident.
Having a goal that aligns to the person you want to become will boost your self-confidence because it makes you certain of who you are and that you have created a path to fully become what you want to be.